Month: March 2017

What Were Those Wise Men Thinking?

Italian Nativity Scene, St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in San Rafael, Calif.

Did you ever wonder what Mary and Joseph did with those rare and precious gifts the Three Wise Men brought?

When they got back home, did they use them to set up a trust fund for their baby’s future education? Or maybe Joseph traded them in on new tools for his carpentry shop. After all, his son would someday follow him in the family business, right? Who needs to go to school when you can learn a good trade right there at home?

I suppose his parents were pretty disappointed when their boy chose to become an itinerant preacher. Not much chance of making a decent living in that profession.

Anyway, what good are frankincense and myrrh? So impractical. Like getting an engraved silver baby cup from your in-laws. No possibility of an exchange.

Those Three Kings were a little out of touch with everyday life. Why didn’t they give the baby something useful? Like a year’s supply of diapers, or toddler-sized swaddling clothes. Babies grow so fast.

Still, all that really matters is that gifts come from the heart. That’s what makes them rare and precious, like the Three Magi’s gifts so long ago.

Photos of Downtown

So Many Things to Do in Downtown San Rafael, my current hometown. Here are a few of my favorites, along with photographs taken mostly on tree-lined Fourth Street (including some from my series of reflections in display windows.)

How about learning to lunge and parry at Marin Fencing Academy, or wandering over to Fifth Street to view political memorabilia at the new Museum of International Propaganda?

Take in an art film at the art deco Rafael Theater, have a cool game of pool at Classic Billiards, or join in an ongoing board game at GameEscape.

Admire the 1951 MG Supercharged Roadster at Jack L. Hunt Classic Cars:

Or follow your favorite superhero at Blue Moon Comics:

Other possibilities: sample some of the 16 beers on tap at Pint Size Lounge. Sweat it out at Red Dragon Yoga. Enjoy good coffee and fresh blackberry scones at Arizmendi co-op bakery. Search for treasures at Hospice by the Bay Resale Shop:

Here are more ideas: Curl up on a comfy sofa at Rebound Books and dip into an old novel:

Have your palm read by “Angel” (no relation) at Psychic Readings:

Get your nails done at Neverland Beauty. Admire the sparkly purple Mexican chair at Folk Art Gallery:

Take a free drawing lesson at Riley Street Art Supplies:

Or, enter through a beaded Frida Kahlo curtains and get a styling at Pin Up Hair Emporium:

Visit St. Raphael’s Catholic Church and Historic Mission on Fifth, where mass is celebrated in Spanish, Vietnamese, Haitian and Portuguese as well as English.

You get the picture. It’s hard to be bored here!


The Future of Kids & Pets

Kids & Pets

Two generations from now, children will no longer need human contact. At least that’s what one futurist predicts.

My question is: If that’s so, will kids still want the comfort of a furry pet? I’m betting they will.

In “Lo and Behold,” a documentary about the Internet, filmmaker Werner Herzog interviews a wide array of  web pioneers, technologists, sociologists and visionaries, as well as experts in artificial intelligence and robotics.

They talk about the history of the World Wide Web and its current effects on culture and society. As for what they see in their crystal balls for the future, it may be amazing — but it’s also scary.

For instance, that forecast about children two generations down the line not needing human touch. If that turns out to be the future, I’m glad I won’t be around to see it.

On the other hand, maybe that dreary prediction is coming sooner than predicted: Toyota has a new mini-robot, a pocket-sized guy that understands kids’ questions and answers them in Japanese. (English is coming.) Who needs real parents?

If children do evolve to no longer need contact with humans, will words such as “cuddle” and “snuggle” fall out of use? My hypothesis is, no — they will still be spoken about live, furry creatures.

No matter how technologically advanced the human race becomes, I think kids will always need the comfort and companionship of puppies and dogs, kittens and cats, bunnies and ponies and horses, guinea pigs and hamsters. Even pet rats.

The photos posted here are of my four granddaughters. Over the years, they’ve had a wide variety of furry friends. They have cared for them, played with them, and turned to them for solace when life got hard.

And even though my girls are teenagers now, their love affair with pets goes on. May it always be so!



Reflections on San Rafael

Reflections is the name I’ve given to a series of photographs I’m taking of shop windows in downtown San Rafael, my current California home. Here is an example:

I love San Rafael. I’ve had a lot of “hometowns,” but San Rafael is one of the best.

This city is old. It has authentically interesting architecture. Its downtown and neighborhood streets are lined with trees. It nestles in the surrounding green hills of Marin County, across the Golden Gate Bridge from San Francisco and a few miles up Highway 101. And if you’re standing in the right spot, you can see the peak of iconic Mount Tamalpais.

This town is not upscale, thank God. It’s not a tourist destination, like Sausalito or Tiburon. And it is more diverse than most Marin County towns, which I appreciate.

Fourth Street is San Rafael’s mile-long main drag. It’s a “walker’s paradise,” according to, which gives it a walkability score of 96 percent, based on the ease of walking to such everyday destinations as banks, post office, markets.

The downtown area draws pedestrians year-round  to do business and shop in its stores, many of which are family run. Like shops in Europe, they tend to specialize. On Fourth Street, you can find a shop for everything from fresh-made sourdough bread to sports cards, from comic books to lacrosse gear, from classic billiards to classic cars.

It’s a good place to walk your dog. Most of the shops have doggy water bowls in front. “Guide Dogs for the Blind” has its headquarters on Fourth Street, and trainers, clickers, and future service dogs are everywhere.

Coffee? Food? There’s a Starbucks, of course. But on Fourth Street, independent coffee shops are alive and well. So are an amazing variety of places to eat: Italian, Mexican, Puerto Rican, Chinese, Japanese, French, Korean, Thai, Burmese, Middle Eastern, Californian, down-home American. And such local favorites as House of Bagels, Johnny Donuts, Double Rainbow Ice Cream, and Pizza Orgasmica: “The Original Sin.”  Not a fast-food franchise in sight.

People actually come downtown at night, meeting friends, having dinner. Every Thursday evening, all summer long, several blocks of Fourth Street are closed to traffic and taken over by the San Rafael Farmers Market. Locally grown fruits and veggies are the big draw, along with stalls selling roast corn, fresh oysters, fried-chicken-and-waffles-on-a-stick, homemade tamales, Himalayan sandwiches and Polish “dawgs.”  Live music for the adults, pony rides and giant inflatable slides for the kids.

Of course, San Rafael has its problems. Including the homeless, more numerous here than elsewhere in Marin. Balancing their needs with those of the town’s citizenry is not easy, and the search for answers is ongoing. My little church is involved in the effort, along with other churches and organizations.

As for the Reflections series, I have certain rules: First, the window display must be interesting. Second, the reflection must show layers of neighboring buildings and the passing scene. I’ll post more of these photographs in the future.

The Reflections image at the top of this post was taken at D’Lynne’s Dancewear, which sells costumes as well as tutus and tap shoes. Reflected in D’Lynne’s window, behind Uncle Sam and the Statue of Liberty, is the Christopher B. Smith Rafael Theater, a restored Art Deco movie theater that focuses on foreign, art, classic, and documentary films. It is run by the nonprofit California Film Institute (of which I am a member).

And here’s a favorite place on Fourth Street:

Double Rainbow Ice Cream




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